Ladies! There is no such thing as Prince Charming. There is no Superman. There are okay guys, great guys, good guys, not-so-good guys, bad guys, and terrible guys. You should be able to distinguish the differences in a few dates. For those of you who are lucky enough to find a great guy or a good guy, hold on tight! Here's what I learned from my own experiences and by closely observing my family and friends.
1. Pick one of the things your man likes to do; and do each one atleast once (if it's not outrageously beyond your comfort zone) you may surprise yourself and like some of them.
examples: video games, action flicks, paintball, strip clubs, rock concerts, fishing, sports
2. Don't ramble on about your hair, waist size, shoe size, birthmarks, stretchmarks, fingernails, toes, etc. (ladies, that's what your girlfriends are for) ---- Your man does not care. He wouldn't be with you if he found you repulsive. Confidence = SEXY
3. Don't nag your man. If you want something done, do it yourself. If you're trying to make a point, nagging is the worst thing you can do. If it's something that ONLY your man can do and he puts it off for some reason, refuse do something that he ONLY needs you to do and he'll get it. But only use this as an example once or twice, because it will backfire if used incorrectly or in abundance.
4. What you give is what you get. Take that any way you want to. wink wink
5. Tell your man exactly what you feel. The old cliche, men are not mind readers. It's true. If you're pissed because he hasn't taken you out in a while, don't act all weird and then when he asks you what's wrong you say ..."nothing" with an attitude and expect him to know what's buggin you. Better yet, if you want to go out, take HIM out. Yes, chivalry, for the most part is a thing of the past, and women fought so hard for equality, so now's the chance to flex it.
6. Know when to leave him alone.
If he comes home from work exhausted or moody, don't ask him what's wrong a million times. Just leave him alone. Let him sleep, watch TV, play video games ... Or give him some lip service, a shoulder rub, or a cold beer. That'll turn his mood right around.
If he's in the middle of saving the planet from aliens, or if he's robbing a "hoe" for her money and blasting away at cops, leave him alone. Go paint your nails, read a magazine, call your best friend. Do something, but for goodness sake, do not get in his face while he is playing a game! (You know he can't hear you anyway - so don't ask him if the dress you're wearing makes you look fat)
7. Be spontaneous. This is hard to do if you have kids, but it's not impossible.
8. Don't make yourself available 24/7. Keep them wondering. They like it. Even when you're in a long-term relationship, go out with your friends, do your own thing.
9. Don't be jealous if he looks at another girl. He's JUST LOOKING. Want to throw him for a loop? Let him catch YOU looking at another girl and say "damn she is HOT".
10. Never, ever, ever, put your man down; especially in front of other people. By this, I mean don't emasculate your man. It hurts. It's embarrassing. It's disrespectful. Some women think that because a man is supposed to be "strong" and "tough" it means they can do and say hurtful things without consequence. Your man is a human being with feelings just like you. Be nice. If you're pissed at him wait until you're not so pissed to approach him.
There are probably 20 more things I can come up with, but these are probably the most important ones that I can think of right now. Ladies, stay cool. Gentlemen, stay good.